Friday, March 8, 2013

Already bored with happy

Like Shrek said in one of his three movies, " Happy, happy,happy."

I can't go writing 100 happy post, I am the kind that gets easily bored.

Anyway, we are not put in this world to be happy, but to gain the blessings of Allah.

Nevertheless, happy is important because being unhappy is bad for the soul. That is why we have to learn to stay happy, if not, at least, to keep cool.

The best kind of happiness is being happy in both ease and adversity. Anyone can be happy when they get what you want.  Everyone is happy when everything goes their way.  But can you be happy when the world is against you and everything goes wrong?  Can you still find something to be happy about? Can you keep your smile while you heart is breaking? Can you feel happy when someone wins and you lose?

 And no one is happy all the time.

When it comes to heartbreaks, I am up there, where few have been.

It sucks the life out of you, swallow you whole. You forget what it is like, the emotion happy.  Its a stranger to your heart.

But after the dust settle, as it always would,  you must give yourself permission to be happy again. Telling yourself, despite the hurt, the heartaches, the giving up, the bleak, the damage, that its okay....to be happy.

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