Wednesday, April 13, 2011

When things do not turn out the way we want it to

Turn out of events. Not accordingly. Far from expected. Let down. Bad.

That happens, To some of us.  To us.

When this happens, we get wounded, shaken. Then we struggle to find our bearings and with time, bounce back.

How fast we bounce back depends on how big the let down.

We lament, why do we not get what we were working  for. Why? After all the hard work. After all that we put in. And gone through.

Only Allah knows. And we must have faith, that only He knows what is good for us.  And that whatever happens has its wisdom and a lesson to be learnt.  Allah says to the meaning, what we like might not be good for us, and what we do no like is actually  good for us.

Most of the time, it is a test.  A test of faith, a test of spirit, a test of time or a test of character. Or a test of sincerity.

When I see my loved ones going through these test, it pains me to see their struggle, their coming in terms with their let down, to see hurt in their eyes.

I get alot of these test.  A whole lot. Failed some. Passed some. Still tested, as we speak, so to say.

So, find your courage,  life goes on,  Face these test. Bite the bullet. The only way out is through.

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